Recommended Reading
This curated reading list offers evidence informed and inclusive perspective on relationships, sexuality and wellbeing. Titles have been selected to support parents, young people and professionals engaging with relationships and sex education topics across a range of developmental stages and contemporary contexts.
For Adults & Professionals
Come As You Are
Author: Dr Emily Nagoski
Publisher: https://www.simonandschuster.co.uk
First Published: 2015
Explores the science of sexual desire and arousal, with a focus on understanding how context, stress and emotional factors influence sexual wellbeing. The book challenges common myths and supports a sex positive, research informed approach to understanding sexuality. Recommended for adults seeking a deeper understanding of desire and autonomy
It’s Not Hysteria
Author: Dr Karen Gunter
Published: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com/search-results/?keyword=It%27s+not+hysteria
First Published: 2020
Examines how historical bias and misinformation have shaped understanding of women’s reproductive health. The book encourages evidence based knowledge and critical thinking around medical narratives.
How the Pill Changes Everything
Author: Dr Sarah E. Hill
Publisher: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com
First Published: 2019
Explores research on hormonal contraception and its broader psychological and physiological impacts. The book presents scientific findings while encouraging readers to think critically about how medication can influence wellbeing. Best suited for adult readers interested in reproductive health and informed decision making.
Boys & Sex
Author: Peggy Orenstein
Publisher: https://harpercollins.co.uk
First Published: 2020
Investigates how adolescent boys understand sex, relationships, consent and pornography in contemporary culture. Drawing on interviews and research, the book explores masculinity, vulnerability and social pressures. Particularly relevant for parents and professionals supporting young men.
The Descent of Man
Author: Grayson Perry
Published: https://www.penguin.co.uk
First Published: 2016
A culture exploration of modern masculinity and how traditional gender expectations affect men and boys. The book critiques rigid gender norms and encourages emotional openness and equality. Suitable for adults reflecting on masculinity in contemporary society.
For Parents and Carers
Beyond Birds & Bees
Author: Bonnie J. Rough
Publisher: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/landing-page/about-seal-press/
First Published: 2018
offers guidance for parents navigating conversations about sex, relationships and bodies with young people. The book encourages age-appropriate, open communication and challenges the idea that sex education should be avoided or delayed. A supportive resource for building confidence in family discussions.
Talk To Me First
Author: Deborah Roffman
Published: https://dacapopublishing.com
First Published: 2012
Focuses on helping parents develop ongoing, developmentally appropriate conversations about relationships and sexuality. This book emphasises trust honesty and gradual learning rather than single “big talks”. It’s suitable for parents seeking structured guidance.
For Young People
This Book Is Gay
Author: Juno Dawson
Publisher: https://www.bonnierbooks.co.uk/imprints/hot-key-books/
First Published: 2014
Providing accessible inclusive information for LGBTQ+ young people about identity, relationships and sexual health. The tone is direct and affirming while remaining informative. Best suited for older teens and young adults.
You Know Sex
Author: Cory Silverberg & Fiona Smyth
Published:https://www.sevenstories.com/?srsltid=AfmBOopvkMNp-QIfsf6VMLsl4zdQW18zoubO2SwJdrCP_G7gCKt6UK_B
First Published: 2022
Inclusive and illustrated guide to sex, bodies and relationships designed for adolescents. The Book takes a broad, body-positive and consent focused approach to sex education. Suitable for older children and teens.
Guy Stuff
Author: Dr Cara Natterson
Publisher: https://www.americangirl.com/collections/books
First Published: 2017
Practical and accessible guide to male puberty addressing physical and emotional development. The book provides clear explanations aimed at reducing embarrassment and misinformation. Suitable for preteens and younger teenagers.
Reading recommendations are shared to support learning and reflection. Content suitability will vary depending on age, experience and context. Discretion is advised when selecting resources for young people.
Inclusion on this page does not imply endorsement of all views expressed by authors. Readers are encouraged to engage critically and select materials appropriate to their needs.